There he is, standing at the opposite side of the bar or across from you at the coffee shop… the guy of your dreams! His eyes meet yours, a quick glance, and then it’s back to his drink. Was that just a signal that he was giving you or was he just surveying the scene?
According to Tracey Cox, relationship expert, 55% of impression we get from someone is through their body language, 38% is through speed and inflection and tone of voice,and only 7% is through what they are actually saying. so if you want to know if someone actually likes you, let their body do the talking. I’m going to talk you through 5 signs of whether they are keen or whether they’re just not that into you.
1) The Eyes Have It
I’m sure most of you have heard the proverb, “The eyes are the window to the soul”. Well, it’s oh so true! If there’s a spark and a connection between you two, you’ll see a lot of eye contact being made. Make sure to return his gaze with a slight smile to let him know that you’re interested. Another thing to look out for is whether they’re pupils are dilated. It’s yet another sign that they’re keen on you. Watch out for the blink rate. If you see your date blink a lot, it’s not because they have something stuck in their eye, it’s because they’re very, very interested.
Finally, if someone is talking to you and while you’re speaking to them, you think they’re looking at your mouth, it’s not because you have some chocolate sauce on the side of your lip or a piece of lettuce stuck in your teeth (at least that’s hopefully the case). It’s because the mouth is very seductive and it could be that they’re actually thinking about what it’d be like to kiss you. On the other hand, if this sign is not mixed with any of the other positive signs that he’s into you, then it could actually mean that he’s just avoiding eye contact because he’s not that into you.
2) Leaning Into Love
If a guy you met with the help of adultfrienedfinder app is interested in you, you’ll find that his body will lean forward toward yours. This could be a subtle lean or a very obvious “in your face” lean! This is his way of letting you know that he would like to get even closer to you.
3) It’s All In The Touch
If someone touches you… a slight brush of the shoulder, a little slide of the leg, a touch on the hand… these are all signs of affection, so don’t be put off. Reciprocate! Do a little touching of your own to let him know that you’re into what he’s doing.
I hope when you are out on a date with someone that you notice all these things because these are all signs that he is really into you!